Working Class Hero’s

With a tear in my eye and a heavy heart I write this blog.  My mind tells me ‘no this is a mistake’ but my heart assures me ‘following your integrity is never a mistake’. Political views are not my strong point, but my heart and strength of character are; just like most other working […]

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It is a beautiful day here in Manchester.  I have no idea why I am drawn to blog about abuse tactics, but my blogs seem to have a mind of their own.  I simply feel a fire in my belly, run with it and before I know it there is a blog.  So here is […]

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Losing someone special

Saturday the 17th of January 2015 I was getting ready as usual.  In the bath, I became a little bemused why all of a sudden I had an urge to sing.  It was not too unusual as sometimes I will have a little sing in the bath and sometimes I will not.  I was singing […]

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It is good to talk

Often people will wonder how counselling can help them, how will they benefit from accessing counselling?  Counselling will not be for everyone, but it can help many.  The counselling starts as soon as a person walks into the room, do they appear confident?  Or do they come across as timid?  Do they move the chair […]

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Addiction, take cocaine for example….

Addiction is a complex issue and varies greatly amongst different cultures.  There are different types of addiction, different stages of addiction, different recovery models, different attitudes towards addiction and different outcomes from addiction. The lifestyle of a person caught up in addiction, will depend on what that person is addicted to.  People can be addicted […]

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